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Drew was never really that excited about having a baby brother he would hit Trent over the head for no reason or pull his hair.  After a few months Drew decided Trent was here to stay and he should embrace it.  Drew was very protective of his little brother and would always say "That my brother" or "That my Tent".  Yes he called him Tent.  Fast forward to this morning at 4 AM.  Drew was very fussy for about an hour which woke Trent up.  Trent went directly into the kitchen for a fruit cup, banana and cereal bar (this is why I have to remember to shut the gate on the kitchen) and then he went back to bed.  Drew settled down and fell back asleep. Trent woke up again at 6.  We were all laying on the LoveSac but morning mom duty called so I went down to do laundry and pack up the car.  When I came back to get them dressed for school this is how I found them.  Please note that Trent's hand is in Drew's hair. 

Christmas seemed to sneak up on me this year! I have been meaning to post an update on the kids but we have been so busy with holiday parties and events.

Since Drew had his feeding tube placed he has gained 8 pounds which is great! We have obtained better control over his muscle spasms too. He is still eating by mouth but we have started to give him some tube feeds on the days he does not feel like eating by mouth. We had a home equipment evaluation the week before Christmas for a medical bed and some bath equipment. We have been warned that insurance will most likely deny this request so I am hoping that we hear back quickly so we can just purchase the bed and bath equipment. Drew’s skills are still regressing and his sight has deteriorated. He still laughs at Trent and his friends. His smiles and laughs can brighten the world.

Trent is completely obsessed with hockey lately! He carries his stick everywhere he goes and now he carries little hockey figures too. He is a great little brother to Drew always sitting with him and placing toys on Drew’s lap. Trent has been working with a speech therapist and he is talking more. He has not shown any other signs of Batten Disease to this point.

We are still considering going to China but are waiting for the Cornell study to start before we make our final decision. At the moment, the study is in the final stage of regulatory review so hopefully we will hear something soon. If we go to China for treatment it could prevent them from participating in the Cornell study.

Also I wanted to let everyone know that we are so thankful for all the thoughts, prayers and donations we have received.

All I can say is WOW! The response from the WTAE story has been amazing. I knew Pittsburgh was a great city with caring people but I had no idea that my two boys would have such an impact. My email has been going crazy and the Trust is receiving donations every hour. The emails that stand out the most are the ones that talk about my family giving other people the motivation to accept what they cannot change and enjoy life. There was a very inspirational moment in my journey that I usually don't share but thought I would now.

On February 1, 2008 one day after my birthday I noticed that Drew was doing this strange head bop thing. Within 3 days I realized these were seizures and he was having hundreds of them. We were inpatient in the EEG monitoring unit for 4 days and then on the general floors until we adjusted his medications. At that point I decided that I needed to take some time off of work to concentrate on Drew and getting him back on track. There was one day shortly into my six weeks off that I thought I was losing my mind and it was only 8 AM! Drew would get very cranky with medication changes and this day was going to be a BAD one. So I do what I do best and packed him up for some retail therapy at South Hills Village Mall. We walked around a bit before the stores opened and our first stop was the "Mickey Store" aka The Disney Store. Drew was acting up a bit but was doing better. Out of the corner of my eye I noticed a very well dressed mommy with perfect hair and that is when I realized I had not even brushed my hair and I was still in the same clothes I wore the day before. I quickly thought to myself well if Drew was typical I would care. I was too busy making him better to care. Then the mommy turned and in her stroller was the most beautiful blond haired girl who was hooked up to an oxygen tank. At that very moment I wanted to DIE. Really I did. But the lesson I learned was that things never appear as they are at first glance. I did not speak to that mother or daughter but they touched me. I bought Drew a stuffed Mickey, went home took a shower and vowed never to feel sorry for myself again.

Drew and his girlfriend Chloe made it offical on Saturday, October 31st.  They are now happily married!

There will be a story tonight on WTAEs 5 pm news. Check it out but if you miss it I will try to post a link after it airs.

Last week I received an email from Jill Garrett the President of Maximum Hope Foundation (MHF) saying that they heard about the boys and wanted to help us in any way that they could. Within 48 hours they had an additional IV pole used for Drew's feedings, gauze pads and Giant Eagle gift cards delivered to our home. It was truly amazing. Every single day I am surprised at the amount of caring people and organization that have come forward to support Drew and Trent. Please visit their website at http://www.maximumhopefoundation.org/.

Wow the Pasta Dinner at St. Val's church was this weekend and it was a huge success

We served over 1,500 dinners most likely close to 1,700 but we lost track of which 440 were take out. Over 400 lbs of pasta and 50 gallons of sauce was used. There was over 80 auction items which raised $6,800. The line started when the doors opened and never stopped until well after 5 pm. It was very heart warming to see all of those people and know that my sons have touched each one of them!

One of the most memorable moments of the dinner is when two women came up to me to introduce themselves and share their story.  Their sister passed away in 1984 at the age of 11 from Batten Disease.  The pictures they showed reminded me that even though Drew and Trent will not be with us as long as we had planned they will never be forgotten! They said that their mother was there but it is still too hard for her to talk to me. I later ran into her and words are not needed to know the kind of bond her and I share.  If it was not for her doing all she could for her child my children would not have the hope of treatment that they do now. I always try to remind myself that my sorrow will someday lead to another mother's joy. I am convinced that we will find a cure for this terrible disease and I get some peace for knowing that we were a part of it.  Below are a few pictures of Dodie:

Drew is scheduled to have his feeding tube placed next Tuesday so please remember to say an extra prayer for him so that everything goes well and he bounces right back.  Trent is still doing really well with no signs of seizures yet.  He is talking more and more everyday.  Funny but he says "Jackass" really well.....I don't know where he would learn words like that.  Trent is also making his brother laugh every day!  Trent is trying very hard to include his brother in everything he does.  If he is playing hockey he gets Drew a stick and demands that he play too.  Same with baseball.  It is too cute. 

People are giving me a hard time about not having a post yet so Tom this is for you!

Drew's weight has been dropping lately so we have decided to place a g-tube. He will have the surgery on October 6th so wish us luck. When he had his VNS implanted last August he had a hard waking up. I think it was due to all the pain killers they gave him when he first came out of surgery. He was crying and I thought he might be in pain so we pumped him full of meds. Trent is still showing no signs of Batten Disease. His speech is improving daily thanks to Brain and Kristi his speech therapists.

Drew also stared school this week. He rides the bus! When he was still talking he would demand that we drive through the bus parking lot to count the buses. I would tell him that I was going to cry when he started taking the bus. He thought that was so funny that he would always say "Mama cry" when asked what I was going to do his first day of big boy school. I am proud to say that I did not cry!!!! I have come a long way in this journey so far. Instead of being sad on his first day I was thankful that he was getting the experience. It is truly a blessing that he is still well enough to go to school. Our neighbors Nolan and Chloe (Drew's girlfriend) along with Trent waved to Drew as he got on the bus and they were there to greet him when he got home. Drew is loving school! Trent on the other hand misses his big brother when he is gone.

A few articles ran in our local papers this week and the response is great.  There are so many good people out there that want to help.  The articles are under the Links section of the site.  Next week there will be more so check back.

We will be selling tickets for the Pasta Dinner on Saturday September 5th from 9-2 at the Panera at South Park Shops so please stop by and see us.